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obskura in askpoly

How do I talk to my partner about norms in their other relationships that bother me, to the point that they have a negative impact on my relationship with them?

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Can you elaborate on this? Exactly which norms do you dislike in your partner's other relationships? I am seriously interested in how people respond to your question because I have had similar thoughts myself.
it was more of a specific set issue with a particular (previous) partner and their primary partner. Basically, I felt that their relationship was unhealthy, and some of the things that would go on would impact me. I guess that's not very specific but i'm not totally comfortable writing about the specifics here.